| Q1.
Can I get any access to a computer in the homestay
house?
A1. Most Canadians do have computers at home,
but will not allow students to use their computers
mainly because:
1) Students occupy the computer for too long so
other family members can’t use it or it
may cost the family extra money depending on the
type of internet service they have.
2) Students download non-English programs that
interfere with the homestay computer system.
3) Students visit inappropriate, non-educational
websites which may result in the homestay family’s
email being filled with many unwanted emails from
these sites.
In many cases, you can surf the internet or use
computers to do homework at your school. If not,
you can go visit the nearest PC café, there
are many of these in downtown Vancouver. However,
for any other purpose like e-mail, chatting, or
shopping online, remember that the internet will
take your precious time away. For your own sake,
try not to spend too much time using the computer
it will take away from the time you could use
to practice your English.
Q2.
Why should my showering time be limited?
A2. A Canadian detached house has one hot water
tank, which is used for washing, dishwashing,
showering and everything. If you use too much
hot water while showering, the amount of hot water
becomes insufficient for other usage.
Q3.
Can I have a private bathroom?
A3. It is common that students share a bathroom
with other students staying in a house, or with
the homestay family. In some cases, you might
be able to have a private bathroom with an additional
fee of CAD $100.
Q4.
Why can’t I have a TV in my room?
A4. We recommend that you spend as mush time as
possible with your homestay family or friends
with different nationalities, practicing your
English. TV itself is not a big help for learning
English because you are listening passively. Watching
TV with your homestay family is better than watching
by yourself as you have the opportunity to talk
to them about the program. Going out with your
English-speaking friends or and experiencing new
outdoor activities will benefit you more.
Some homestay families may have more than one
TV but this is usually for their own convenience
since a private TV can be a good solution to keep
a student inside the room and not to bother the
family.
Q5.
I found that homestay house rules are very strict.
Do I have to follow them all?
A5. Every homestay house has its own rules. Some
of them may not seem agreeable to you, but they
are the rules that the homestay family think necessary
for the security and comfort of the family and
yourself. Just as you might do with your own family,
feel free to discuss the rules and let the homestay
parents know your concerns. If you cannot come
to some kind of compromise, please
consult your homestay coordinator or agency.
Q6.
When I decide to move to a new apartment or a
new homestay house, or go to the airport to return
to my country, who will help me?
A6. When you return to your country, often the
homestay family gives students a free ride to
the airport, but this is not mandatory. When you
move to a new apartment or another homestay house,
do not expect the family will carry your luggage
and drive you to your new home. In these cases,
you may ask the homestay family to do you a favor,
but realize that they are not obligated to do
so. In case you are moving to a new homestay house,
the new family can pick you up from your old home
but this is not obligatory either. You can always
call a taxicab to drive you to your new home.
Q7. I can't study at all because of the
noisy children at home!
A7. If you find that the homestay children are
making it difficult for you to study, you could
ask your homestay family if it would be possible
to have a “quiet time” for an hour
or two in the evening while you are studying.
You could also do your studying after class time
at your school or at a public library. Don’t
forget that playing and having fun with the children
can also be a great way for you to practice your
English in a very relaxed setting. However, if
you wish to stay with a family without any child,
please inform us in advance.
Q8.
Will I have only two meals a day during the weekend?
I will be starving!
A8. In Canada, it is common for people to wake
up later than usual on weekends and to have "brunch"
(one big meal between breakfast and lunch) in
the late morning or early afternoon. Canadians
generally gather at the table and enjoy dinner
together, but they have breakfast and lunch very
casually and individually for convenience. In
some families, homestay mothers prepare lunch
for students during the week, but may not do so
on the weekend because students will not be going
to school and can easily help themselves to some
lunch if they are hungry. If you feel you need
to have three meals especially on the weekend,
you can always let your homestay family know that
you would prefer having two smaller meals to one
large one and perhaps you could arrange to have
leftovers or make yourself a sandwich for lunch.
Q9.
When I join family outings, how can I bear the
expense?
A9. When you go out with the family that takes
more than 30 minutes in the car, it is desirable
that you offer some money to pay for some of the
gasoline. When fees or expenses are given individually,
as in theatres or restaurants, you should pay
for yourself. “Dutch Treat”, or sharing
the cost of the meal or event, is common in most
western countries.
Q10.
My homestay mother says, "Help yourself with
anything in the refrigerator." But I always
open it to find nothing in it except bread, fruits,
juice, milk, or vegetables.
A10. What your homestay mother means is that if
you are hungry in between meals you are welcome
to have a snack. Canadians commonly munch on carrot
sticks, fruits, or crackers with cheese in between
meals. Don’t expect to find a whole meal
waiting for you in the refrigerator at all times!
If you feel the need to eat something hot, perhaps
you can prepare some instant noodles or warm up
some canned food.
Q11.
I like everything here but the food. What should
I do?
A11. Part of the experience is learning to adapt
to different surroundings. Don’t expect
everything to be exactly the same as it is at
home. Be willing to try new foods and realize
that you may not like everything the first time.
If you miss certain foods from home, try to eat
out once or twice a week. Vancouver is famous
for having many international restaurants, where
you can eat a variety of your country's dishes.
Eating out can be a good way to make new friends
in Canada.
Q12.
My homestay family likes to hug me, which makes
me feel very uncomfortable! What should I do?
A12. For people from Latin America or some European
countries, it is normal to greet friends and family
with hugs or kisses. Try to understand that this
way of greeting others and showing their affection
is an aspect of their culture. You can try to
accept it and do as they do, or let them know
that this is uncommon in your culture and that
while you appreciate their friendly gesture, it
makes you feel uncomfortable. If they are hugging
you, they obviously like you and will respect
your feelings about this if you are open enough
to share the feelings.
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